Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Ok, so these are some things I’m learning about Argentina and Argentine ways:
·         It’s Argentine not Argentinian (although Word says they’re both acceptable…so I guess it’s just “Argentine” here).
·         Breakfast = toast with dulce de leche (which if you don’t know what that is, it’s a sweet topping; they use it like we use Nutella, except it’s more caramel-y and less chocolate-y) and coffee…that’s it.
·         The buses honk frequently and drive like they’re tiny vehicles (meaning they try to squeeze into small spaces and have no problem cutting off other drivers), also they don’t always come to a complete stop for people to get off, and may start driving away before everyone is on.  Seriously, yesterday there was a large group of people getting on and the last guy wasn’t even on the steps yet but the driver started driving away, so the guy hung on to a handle bar and was running with the bus until he could jump up onto the step.  I am so glad I was not that guy.
·         Air-Conditioning is a luxury I have taken for granted in the States.
·         Many buildings here are so warm…like sweating all the time warm. =/
·         The streetlights not only go from green to yellow to red, but also from red to yellow and then green, so you know when it’s about to turn green…spiffy.
·         You don’t need to clean up after your dog.
I think that’s all for today.  But today was the first day of Orientation…which is exactly like freshman orientation when you start college; we played ice breaker games and everything.  It was nice to get to know the students better, but we were all so tired it was hard to keep up the energy to talk to people.  But we have more orientation tomorrow, we’ll be taking our oral placement exam, sorting out classes, and buying cell phones.  After that Yelena and I are going to go shopping for some regular sized shampoo and conditioner and the like, and maybe some food too.  We’re allotted space in the fridge and the cupboards to keep anything we want, so that’s pretty nice—I mean, it’s a requirement for the program, but still nice.
I’m going to try to add some pictures today, we’ll see how that goes.  But please note that I don’t actually have any of people…well ok, one of Annalise.  But bear with me, I don’t want to just be taking pictures of people!  That would be weird!  But don’t worry, in time, in time. 
Big positive of the day: Yelena and I made it to the IES center and back (taking the buses) today. Yay! We’ll be mobile while we’re here!  She’s a lot better at knowing where to get off than I am, but I’m sure it will come together in time.  The biggest thing is that we need coins to pay for the bus until we get a card, and so we had to go to some little side shop and buy some candy today just so that we would have enough change to use the bus back home.  We got enough to last us a couple days, but I really should get that card soon, I think there’s a website I go to…or something like that; they told us about it in Orientation and gave us a guide with a million or so helpful facts, some of which include transportation advice.  So tomorrow, like I said, we’re figuring out class stuff, so I’m going to sign off now to figure all that out.
Hasta luego!
Kiki
P.S. So I’m kind of writing every single day…I’m fairly certain this will slow down a bit as I’ll have less new things to share, but for now, enjoy the frequent updates. (However, even though I write every day, doesn't mean I can post everyday, our internet is really sketchy and not liking working with us, but I'm ok with it...eventually I get to post what I want and talk with whom I want, so it's all good!)
P.P.S.  Pictures are not working with me right now…it doesn’t help that the internet is spotty during bad weather (which it happens to be thunderstorming now…) So I guess we’ll save pictures for another day.
P.P.P.S. My Tia thinks that we spend a lot of time on our computers; she teased us after dinner saying “Oh, now you’re going to go use your computers and then go to bed, right?” (In Spanish of course; translated for your convenience)…so I guess we have carved out at least one part of our day to be consistent…=/

Monday, February 27, 2012

So much going on!

So today was...slightly crazier than yesterday.  It was my first full day in Argentina, and we had a tour of the city.  When I say "we" I mean all the students that are a part of IES...so that's between 100 and 120 students (I kept hearing different numbers).  We got on two double decker buses and there was an audio track that went along with where we were going and what we were seeing.  So basically we were all wearing headphones that would tell us where we were and some history about it; they would play the track that corresponds with where we were...did that make any sense?  Anyways, I spent maybe a third of the time listening, but after awhile we were taking off our headphones to talk with each other.  It was the first time any of us met any of the other students and so we were all really curious about each other.  Of course, we were all talking in English, and we would try to make plans but then we realized that none of us have phones yet and so we have no way to contact each other...but soon! Soon we will make plans to hang out!

The tour lasted 3 hours, well we got out at one point and walked around for like, half an hour, then got back on the bus and kept touring/talking.  All in all, it was a pretty awesome time.  But then we had to go to the hospital because my housemate has an infection that she needs antibiotics for.  Well, Soledad (my host mom's secretary) took us to the tour in the first place and she was kind enough to hang out in the city until we got back, and so she helped us get to the hospital.  Well, this hospital is mostly Spanish speaking and my housemate is mostly English-speaking and so it was really stressful for her to be in a place, needing medical attention, but not being able to tell anyone exactly what she needed.  Soledad talked with everyone, but she only speaks a little English and so I was thrown back into that awkward state of pseudo-translator for both sides (Yelena and Soledad).  Three hours later we were out of the hospital, with minimal signs of progress--we need to go back next Monday to see the results of the culture test they took, even though Yelena was pretty certain of what it was.  It was all a very long process and very tiring...says the one who did almost nothing... =/

Tomorrow means Yelena and I need to take the bus ourselves to get to the Center for our first day of orientation...we're supposed to be there at 9:30 and if we left at 9:00 we'd probably get there in plenty of time...with a guide helping us. So I'm thinking we should leave at like, 8:45 or so, just to make absolutely certain that we don't miss the time.  Tomorrow also (hopefully) means that I get a cellphone, but we'll see how it goes.  Oh! This morning, Yelena and I walked around for a bit, we walked around the zoo that's right in front of our apartment and then we walked through a park that's also close by.  All in all, it was a little over an hour that we walked, so this is a good sign! I'll be getting exercise while I'm here!

So Buenos Aires reminds me of Chicago...if it had had room to expand.  What I mean is, even though it's population is the same as Chicago, there's so much more space here!  And it makes sense, from what I saw on the plane it was pretty much all farmlands all around and then BOOM! City.  So there are a TON of parks and areas where you can rest and relax and...go fly fishing apparently. I always thought that was more of a running-water sport, but there were definitely people doing it in a pond...or maybe I just don't know what real fly fishing is...which is a definite possibility.  Anyway, it's a beautiful city and it's a wonderful time to be here, the weather is great (I mean it's storming now, but earlier it was probably mid to upper 70s with a nice breeze blowing.) and the other students seem like they're pretty pumped for this experience, which is awesome.

Another side note, there are like, a million things that I feel like I'm leaving out every time I hit "Publish" and so I just want to know what things you who are reading this want to hear about.  I mean, I could go on for pages and pages telling every detail and every thought but I'm sure that would get really boring really quickly.  But I also don't want to be so brief that it's uninteresting...so what would you like to hear more about?  I mean, I'm sure my plans to buy a cell phone are riveting to you, and it's keeping you on the edge of your seat, but surely there are other things you want to hear about!  So please, leave me a comment and let me know what you'd like to read!  I mean, of course I'll keep it my own, and ultimately I'm the one who decides to write things...but at least for now, when so many different things happen in a day...I just leave out so much, but I don't really know how important that "so much" is to you...so....please comment.  It also makes me feel less isolated when people comment...I mean maybe it's just because I don't have a phone and haven't had internet for the past...day and a half, but I just feel like I'm so disconnected.  And I'm normally not the kind of person who is attached to their phone and the internet...but I can still tell people I'm ok when I needed to.  Without that security of knowing people are just a text/phone call/facebook status away, it gets kind of lonely.  So please comment so I don't feel like Argentina is a million miles away!

As they say here, Ciao!
-Kiki

My first day!


Well, here I am, In Argentina!  This post was actually written in a word document on Sunday, but I won’t have connection to the internet until Monday (hopefully).  My host mom is actually in the States right now, so her mom is here, making sure there’s someone at the house and to take us around, and essentially be a fill-in mom—well she told us to call her “Tia” which means Aunt, so I guess she’s my Aunt.
For those of you that don’t know, I am living with another IES student, and her name is Yelena and she’s from Penn State.  We were actually on the same plane, sitting quite close to each other, on the ride from Dallas to Buenos Aires, but it wasn’t until we were in the customs line that we decided to ask if the other was an IES student.  Turns out we live together!  She’s really sweet, but a little overwhelmed with everything; she wasn’t ready for total Spanish (my host mom Ines teaches English, and so we would have been able to talk in English before diving right into Spanish), but my Tia doesn’t speak English…only Spanish.  So I’ve kind of been playing translator all day, and now my brain hurts.  But, on the plus side, I remember more Spanish than I thought I would!  And I’ve been speaking it all day, that I’m so tempted to start writing this in Spanish…I’m also kind of translating it to Spanish in my head as I go…that’s good, right?  But also confusing, and not helping my headache.
Anyways, I guess I can start at the beginning of my trip: the flight.  Man those planes are small!  American Airlines, who knew?  I ended up sitting next to a guy who was travelling with some of his work buddies, and they sell wine.  They’re spending about a week in Argentina and then a couple days in Chile, which is reverse of how it normally is.  One of his buddies was sitting right in front of him, and we talked a bit and they joked around with each other.  They had a…somewhat biting sense of humor.  I just mean that every time his buddy turned to ask him a question, the guy next to me would say, “Yes ma’am?”, which I must say, took me off guard a bit at first, but I got used to it.  But because he is a business man and he has made many international trips, it was really helpful for me to sit next to him when they passed out the customs forms.  He helped me fill it out correctly, and I’m grateful for that.  As far as sleeping on the plane goes…oof, it was rough.  The seats were so uncomfortable!  If I had my neck situated, my bottom, and when I rearranged to sit more comfortably…ten seconds later my bottom would hurt again.  Also, sleeping with a seatbelt on is restricting to say the least.  I slept for maybe a combined total of four or five hours, so it wasn’t too bad I guess.
So then we get to the airport and go through customs, and at this point Yelena and I have found each other and know that we are housemates and so we are sticking to each other like glue.  We got our bags and then started heading for the main entrance where there are a couple of girls from the IES staff with a sign that says “IES students” and they had a photo list of the 5 of us that were all on the plane together (so yeah, there were a few students on that plane).  Ok, I just want to add here, that my backpack weighs no less than 35 pounds, my suitcase (on wheels) is 48 pounds, and I have a duffel bag that’s probably another 25 pounds or so.  This is a lot of weight!  Also, I’m wearing a jacket, and it’s like, 65 degrees (F) so I’m sweating and I feel gross.  So (after making a wrong turn and backtracking) we get to the other IES people and they call us a cab and Yelena and I split the $240 (AR) bill…so it was about a $60 (US) ride, and it was like 40 minutes, so…I think that’s a good deal?  Although the landscape was beautiful, I was so tired! I started to doze off, I couldn’t really help it.  The cab driver didn’t know much English, and Yelena and I were both pretty much just exhausted and trying to take in as much as we could.  My point is, it was a pretty silent cab ride.  Before I started dozing, however, I did notice a few things about Buenos Aires.  As far as roads go, lanes seem to be optional.  They have yellow lines to divide oncoming traffic, but once you’re off the highway, the streets are wide enough to have two lanes, but there are no lines to indicate orderly lanes…so you can pass people or drive next to them, or whatever you want, except it’s dangerous because there’s less order!  Also, we were listening to the radio and they had some songs in English and some in Spanish, they did play “Moves like Jagger” by Maroon 5 and that made me happy. Another note, they don’t censor the songs… Also side note: there was some dude just riding a horse on a field next to the highway. Just riding a horse like it was totally normal. I was a little taken aback.  I mean, he was the only guy doing it.  There were other people out and about, but none with horses.  So anyways, we pull up to the apartment, and the people at IES gave us a sheet of paper that had the address on it so we could show the taxi driver (and also know for ourselves) and on it, it said Ines lives on the fourth floor.  So, not really knowing what to do, we pressed the button (still outside the building) for the fourth floor and this old, scraggly voice starts talking to us.  Ok, at this point we had pretty much been speaking English the whole time and so I really wasn’t in Spanish mode yet.  After about 20 seconds of confusion from both ends, the doorman rings us in and tells us where the elevator is (I assume they told him we would be coming).  So we get into the elevator, which barely holds us and our luggage (and ok, this elevator is one of those with the accordion-style doors (an outer and an inner) and you have to open them both or close them both when you want to go (I guess that’s kind of obvious) and you have to remember to close the doors when you get off…I’m like, 0 for 2 on that…hopefully my record improves. 
Anyways, Ines’s mom is waiting for us at the door and she welcomes us in…and the Spanish begins!  Thankfully I understood most of what she was saying.  She gave us a tour of like, half the apartment (which is still pretty substantial).  There are 4 bedrooms (one for me, one for Yelena, one for Ines, and a guest bedroom that her mom stays in when she visits) and 4 bathrooms. Yep, I have my own bathroom.  So Yelena and I picked our rooms (pretty much it went like this “Do you care?” “Not really…” “Ok, I’ll take this one, sounds good?” “Sure”.  It was pretty simple.  So yeah, she loves on the fourth floor; the whole fourth floor. The entire floor is her apartment.  Four bedrooms, four bathrooms, a kitchen, a dining room, a living room, a family room, a balcony that goes along the whole wall and overlooks the zoo that is right across the street (literally, right across the street).  It’s incredible.  Now, this place is huge, but the rooms are small (but there are like, 12, so it’s ok) but a lot of it is outdated.  For example, I have a typewriter in my room (it’s on a shelf so I don’t know how often it gets used…), as well as a stereo that only plays cassette tapes.  There’s also a small TV that has the number buttons on the side of it (I don’t know if it works, I haven’t actually tried, but it’s here), and that’s just in my room.  There are, however, some newer things as well, it’s just kind of a hodge-podge mix of things.  This place is well-used, but still comfy and cozy.  As I was unpacking my bag, I couldn’t help but be thinking the song “I Think I’m Gonna Like it Here” from Annie.  That’s exactly what I was feeling. 
After unpacking, I took a shower and changed from jeans into shorts and my Tia took us out to walk around the block and get something to eat.  We hadn’t eaten since the plane (at like, 7:45am they gave us a croissant and jam, with some juice and yogurt as well…but since I don’t like yogurt, my breakfast was pretty scarce.) we were pretty hungry, it was like 2:30pm at this point, and so we walked a few blocks and went into a little restaurant/cafĂ© and, Yelena and I not knowing what anything was, were pretty much mumbling and stumbling through Spanish trying to say what we wanted or didn’t want.  After about ten minutes of that, my Tia just ordered the same thing for all of us.  It was basically chicken and salad.  It was good though, except Yelena had to send hers back because the chicken wasn’t cooked all the way through, and by the time she got hers back, we were already done eating, and she had kind of lost her appetite, so it was kind of a bummer.  But we paid the bill, we each paid for ourselves and it was $32 (AR) each (which is about $8US) and my Tia said that was pretty cheap…so now I know that food will be a big part of my budget. But I also know that breakfast and dinner will be served Monday through Friday at the house, and lunch is pretty much up to us if we want to eat it. 
So when we got back from our little excursion (we also saw the Laundromat and a few other shops and restaurants we can try) I was so tired, I just took a nap…that lasted 3 hours.  And I tried to hook up to a wireless internet and got on for a few minutes so I updated my facebook status and…well that was pretty much it, and after that I was going to write out this entry, but I fell asleep instead.  When I woke up my computer battery had died and so that gave me a chance to try out the converter I brought.  It works!  Unfortunately, now my mouse is freaking out.  It spazzes out when I try to move it and so it takes a while to get to the application I want…and it’s also almost constantly clicking…which is frustrating.  So right now, I actually have 10 word documents open instead of just the one I’m using…and I can’t scroll over anything because my mouse will end up double clicking on it.  It’s especially frustrating to try and close a page that has clickable options on it, because my mouse will suddenly jump to another part of the screen and be clicking all the while.  I’m going to have to try and get this fixed somewhere…but that will be tomorrow.  Also tomorrow is the day that we have an IES sponsored tour around the city, that should be interesting!  And don’t worry, as soon as I can, I will add pictures…I have like four. But tomorrow will hopefully bring more pictures and more memories.
Until then,
Kiki
P.S.  So my mouse is working again!  I wanted to close a window that opened before I closed this one, and it worked fine.  So yes, this is a continuous, right-after-I-wrote-that update.  Sweet!

Also, here are some side notes that don’t really fit into anything, but I just want to say them:
·         My Tia is going to be 94 this year. Yeah, she doesn’t look it!
·         Some student from the program dropped by because he was told this was his homestay…he must have gotten the address wrong, we straightened him out and sent him on his way; he had been here for a few weeks already, so he wasn’t too worried.
·         It’s stinking gorgeous here!

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

A better pre-departure


Phew!  It’s only been four days since my last post but so much has changed that it feels like it’s been…at least weeks!  My Grandparents were able to come down this weekend to visit us before I left and that was really great.  My family prayed for me and that was really helpful, especially in assuaging my fears and anxieties about going.  That was Saturday night, and on Monday night the people in my Bible study prayed for me, and that was really great also.  So basically, I have been saturated in prayers from loved ones (which I know wasn’t only occurring Saturday and Monday—I know people have been praying for me from wherever they are, and that’s so cool, thank you) and it’s awesome. 
Today is (hopefully) the day that I get to cross a bunch of things off my recently made To-Do list. Hopefully.  It’s looking like it may not happen already, though, because “writing a blog entry” is not on the list, and it takes a pretty substantial amount of time to do…oh well, I think it’ll be ok…it’s my list, I can tweak it however I want!  Also, I didn’t want to leave on the note I left on in my last entry, especially because I feel so much better about the trip now!  So thank you to any and all who have been praying for me, it has been very, very much appreciated.

Things you could be praying for:
·         Focus to start packing (procrastination is a bad habit that I’m in, and “vacation” mentality is a hard mode to get out of!
·         Wisdom to know what to pack and what can be left behind
·         Time management so that it all gets done in the FOUR DAYS LEFT
·         My trip and experiences in general

Thank you all so much.
Love,
Kiki

Friday, February 17, 2012

Freaking out!


Well, here it is: my first blog entry.  It’s a pre-departure entry, so no, even though it’s Feb. 17th, I have yet to leave the country. That doesn’t mean, however, that there’s nothing to write about…there’s plenty to write about.
1)      I really am super excited to go, however I’m also super nervous because I’ve never left the county before, and there are so many things I don’t know how to do. For example:
a.       Navigate an Airport (especially alone) [partly in Spanish]
b.      Exchange Currency [in Spanish]
c.       Apply for a Visa [in Spanish]
d.      Navigate a City (especially alone) [in Spanish]
e.       Register for Classes [in Spanish]
f.       Speak Spanish (ok, that one’s actually a lie, but I feel like I don’t know how to do it anymore and I’m going to a place where the first language is Spanish and what if I forget everything I know? Or just…can’t remember it when I need it?)
2)      I am psyching myself out.  This hit me this morning when I woke up from a bizarre stress/sick dream. [Caution: this is really is bizarre, either bear with me, or just skip this part] I was in Argentina with my whole family and all the students in the program with me were essentially all the students from my high school.  We (everyone involved) were in a store in Argentina and I wanted to buy things, but I ran into someone from school and they asked how much I had to spend and I showed them my (U.S.) currency and they just looked at me and were like, “You haven’t exchanged your money yet?”  And I was a little taken aback, but then realized that’s what I had to do.  I’m pretty sure that in the dream I wasn’t the one who exchanged my money, I think it was my dad. He came back and had a bunch of Euros (even though they should have been pesos, Euros were accepted) and he was trying to teach me their value, but I wasn’t getting it, and then he got frustrated at me for not picking it up right away.  Then the scene switched and my family had gone back to the States I guess, and I was on my way to the IES Abroad Center with a couple other students, some of whom were the “mean boys” from high school, others were made up people that I think had some attributes from people on that smash NBC hit “The Voice”…anyways…when we got to the place, which ended up just being a house, I was already doing things wrong.  I’d had gross stuff in my teeth and was spitting it out, but there was always more there and it wasn’t until I picked it out of my mouth (instead of trying to spit it out) that it finally stopped. But by the time that happened, there was grossness all over the ground and the mean boys were disgusted and were looking at me like I was some sort of alien, already I wasn't fitting in… I don’t really remember what happened next, I just know there were like 12 of us sitting around a long table, and I’m pretty sure it was still a bad experience.  Then I woke up and couldn’t get back to sleep, so of course my mind started thinking of all the things I have left to do. Which brings me to my next point,
3)      I haven’t started packing yet.  I have 8 days until I leave. I have like, a million things I need to do.  One of these is packing. I don’t even know where to begin…probably by making a list…I’m a list person.  I should probably do that right after I’m done with this.
4)      There are a lot of unknowns with my housing situation.  I know that I will be in a homestay with a 63 year old woman who lives alone and teaches English, but I also know that I will be living with another IES student from Penn State.  Now, I’m super excited about this, but I’m also really nervous about compatibility stuff.  I mean, at Hope, there is an extensive process to make sure you are living with someone compatible with you as far as when you wake up, when you go to bed, the environment in which you prefer to study, interests and hobbies, etc.  Not so much here.  So I’m really worried that I won’t have a housemate that I’ll like or be friends with, and there is potential (in that) for a tense living-space atmosphere.  So there are just a lot of unknowns there that are causing some anxiety.
5)      I’m also worried that I’ll be too worried and anxious to enjoy anything.  That’s a weird one.  I’ve been told maybe a thousand times that this is going to be the experience of a lifetime, and that I’ll love it.  I’m sure that’s true, but I feel like there is so much weird pressure to have the best possible time there and that if I don’t do everything possible then I’ll have wasted a trip.  However, I know that if I do do everything, then I’ll be completely burned out and not enjoy anything…so I guess I just have to find the balance between doing things and enjoying what I’m doing…right?  Or maybe it’s better put if I say I need to find the balance between experiencing all I can and knowing my limits?  Meh, I know it’s in there somewhere. And I’m sure that at least someone reading this is thinking “Kiki, because you’re worrying about it, that means you’ll be able to find the balance.”  I hate that sentence. People tell me that about so many things. It’s kind of frustrating.  Also: if I stop worrying about it, does that mean it’s a potential threat again?  Probably.  So...point is: I’m just going to keep worrying about it.
6)      And another thing!  What about my spiritual life (yeah…that’s 6th…)?  Will I find a place down there with some sort of Christian group that I’ll like?  I mean, if you find a church and don’t like it, I probably won’t go, and so it doesn’t help anything. I mean, I know a lot of Latin America is Catholic…so I guess that’s good, right?  That’s one of the things I’ll just have to figure out when I get there…like pretty much everything else, lol.  I just want to make sure that I don’t get too caught up on my own life to remember to make time for God.  It happens to me all the time in the States, so what’s to keep it from happening in Argentina?...maybe the fact that I won’t have anything familiar (besides Annalise (one of my best friends who is going to Argentina also)) will make me lean more on God? We’ll see, I guess.
I think that’s just about it.  So in case you missed it, this was kind of a large prayer-request list.  I’m feeling really anxious about going and as of now I’m almost completely unprepared.  I have 8 days to get ready, but it doesn’t seem like enough. 

In a concise way, here are my prayer requests:
1.      Peace…about a lot of things (pre-departure, departure, and post-departure, housing, classes, life...basically everything)
2.      That I’ll remember that God is always in control and even though I’m leaving everything I know, he is still with me and won’t leave me.
3.      Safety in general, and common sense as far as safety is concerned.
4.      Dedication/Motivation to get things done before I leave.
5.      Some sort of wisdom that will guide me and give me peace about what to pack and what not to pack.
6.      More dedication and motivation for when I’m there to continue my blog…
7.      And I’m already feeling burned out…so a renewal of energy?
I think that’s all.  Thank you so much.
Love,
Kiki